1. If anyone adds a record (probably organizational) that starts with "the ", there should be a warning which says "Generally, WMF CiviCRM records should not begin with "The." If you feel the record requires naming in this fashion, please search for the record without "the" before creating a new record."
2. Alert should have "continue" and "cancel" - continue will create the record and cancel will go back so that the name can be altered before saving

Questions: can the alert contain a link (for example to an internal doc with naming conventions)?

This task is an extension of the clean up work done in T122264 to prevent further incidents.