spotted this while bootstrapping restbase1010, it looks like outbound packets are sourced with the main host ip and not the ones configured in cassandra.yaml, in this case it wasn't working because of firewall rules on destination hosts
14:14:03.847886 IP 10.64.0.112.35406 > 10.64.0.220.7000: Flags [S], seq 2750243604, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 40440048 ecr 0,nop,wscale 9], length 0 14:14:03.847898 IP 10.64.0.112.36730 > 10.64.0.221.7000: Flags [S], seq 823540075, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 40440048 ecr 0,nop,wscale 9], length 0 14:14:03.848099 IP 10.64.0.112.47684 > 10.64.48.99.7000: Flags [S], seq 2253905698, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 40440048 ecr 0,nop,wscale 9], length 0 14:14:03.848101 IP 10.64.0.112.37021 > 10.64.48.100.7000: Flags [S], seq 3996782521, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 40440048 ecr 0,nop,wscale 9], length 0 14:14:03.848103 IP 10.64.0.112.52035 > 10.64.48.120.7000: Flags [S], seq 3150107822, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 40440048 ecr 0,nop,wscale 9], length 0 14:14:03.848105 IP 10.64.0.112.58029 > 10.64.32.187.7000: Flags [S], seq 1891138042, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 40440048 ecr 0,nop,wscale 9], length 0 14:14:03.848299 IP 10.64.0.112.57468 > 10.64.32.195.7000: Flags [S], seq 2077856937, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 40440048 ecr 0,nop,wscale 9], length 0 14:14:03.848302 IP 10.64.0.112.45408 > 10.64.0.231.7000: Flags [S], seq 3375292860, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 40440048 ecr 0,nop,wscale 9], length 0 14:14:03.848486 IP 10.64.0.112.46393 > 10.64.32.159.7000: Flags [S], seq 72980954, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 40440048 ecr 0,nop,wscale 9], length 0 14:14:03.848488 IP 10.64.0.112.45264 > 10.64.48.130.7000: Flags [S], seq 2112860170, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 40440048 ecr 0,nop,wscale 9], length 0 14:14:03.848490 IP 10.64.0.112.47592 > 10.64.0.230.7000: Flags [S], seq 1749977256, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 40440048 ecr 0,nop,wscale 9], length 0 14:14:03.912097 IP 10.64.0.112.38070 > 10.64.32.192.7000: Flags [S], seq 1521230055, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 40440064 ecr 0,nop,wscale 9], length 0
restbase1010:~$ host restbase1010.eqiad.wmnet restbase1010.eqiad.wmnet has address 10.64.0.112 restbase1010:~$ host restbase1010-a.eqiad.wmnet restbase1010-a.eqiad.wmnet has address 10.64.0.114