On the first click to a reference, highlight the reference in the article and a few useful actions, but don't open the reference form. Like so:
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I'm thinking on implementing a solution that mimics the standard reference list on Wikipedia articles, that is: a little arrow next to each reference that takes you to the reference without opening it, and little letters that take you to the citations, again without opening the reference for editing.