When we hit mysql deadlocks the victim query is reported but not the causing query.
It should be possible to see the latest causing query using SHOW INNODB ENGINE STATUS but last Jeff checked nothing was reported. This is probably a mysql config issue
http://dev.mysql.com/doc/refman/5.7/en/innodb-deadlocks.html
http://dev.mysql.com/doc/refman/5.5/en/innodb-deadlocks.html
If we can get them to show we can get 'real information' using pt-logger which will track this info over time
https://www.percona.com/doc/percona-toolkit/2.1/pt-deadlock-logger.html