Every few hours cloudcontrol1004 galera is getting out of sync and depooling itself.
I don't know exactly what's happening but it started happening as soon as we split the cloud control cluster between Buster and Bullseye (which is also different mariadb versions). I suspect this will stop happening when we get everything moved to Bullseye.
In the meantime, it seems to help to stop/start the corrupted service, but it might well recover on its own anyway.