This proposal applies to references generated using <ref group=lower-alpha>. English Wikipedia uses them for notes to distinguish them from references to sources.
Current state
Example (see enwiki:User:Petr Matas/sandbox):
a. ^ This note is used once
b. ^ a b This note is used twice
As you can see, the same symbols are used to label the notes and denote their occurences, which is confusing.
Proposal
Use numbers to denote occurences of letter-labeled references.
Example:
a. ^ This note is used once
b. ^ 1 2 This note is used twice