A variety of "Notification wasn't sent" reports in the last few weeks. E.g. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Village_pump_(technical)/Archive_133#Missed_pings
Bob K31416 says:
Someone recently used {{u}} with my user name and I didn't get any notification. diff
I can't see any potential or known problems in that diff, so filing as a new bug. (I even tried changing my signature to use the same code as Cwobeel, and it still worked in a test).
See also: T68078: Indicate mentions in edit preview and in "Your edit was saved" message